this is funny. my friend swears that haitian women have a secret. i just think it's a combo of our hair genes, healthy hair practices and diet. personally, my mom didn't relax my hair, ever. and she was always doing things that people do on this board - conditioning the hair, moisterizing the hair, doing light protein treatments, keeping my hair in a protective style. growing up, my hair was never, ever out. i can't count on one hand how many times it was. and yes, the use of l'huile maskreti. that was big in our home. as for our diet, we eat a lot of beans and vetetables- the beans help with hair growth a lot.