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luv04

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Some hair questions and concern i have......

Can i please have someone please respond back
here are my concerns im ]
1. im about 7 1/2 weeks after my relaxer and my a hair is thicker than ever.
but my ends are kinda thin so yesterday i had my mom give me a trim about less than a half an inch,but its more even now but still kinda thin my length is good but i would prefer to have thicker ends along with the other thicker part of my hair (roots, middle section). ive only used the flatiron a few time this monthe the roots and the top will look smoohth but about an 1/2 inch oif the ends s look thin.and i really dont want to go back to my old hairdresser because she was so scissor happy ..my lil sister, mom and i go to the salon there with a different hairdresser to get our hair braided there and one time the old hairdresser was saying that my she would do my old touch up for 5 dollars, she would never really listen to what i had to say and she would put me in her chair last before other customers and i really dont wanna go through that again. she stated that she cared and did not want to see my hair break but my hair has been thriving..oh well i dont feel like she is that sincere..
im so confused ill prob post a pic at what im talkin about
1.shouuld i relax
2. should i get a cut if so how much?
3.sholld i get another trim if so how much?
any other suggestions to what i should do?....im open
4. should o go to a white salon for tha trim/cut. b/c they wont offer a touch up like a black salon. well ladiess if you can help please respond.:-)
 
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luv04 said:
Can i please have someone please respond back
here are my concerns im ]
1. im about 7 1/2 weeks after my relaxer and my a hair is thicker than ever.
but my ends are kinda thin so yesterday i had my mom give me a trim about less than a half an inch,but its more even now but still kinda thin my length is good but i would prefer to have thicker ends along with the other thicker part of my hair (roots, middle section). ive only used the flatiron a few time this monthe the roots and the top will look smoohth but about an 1/2 inch oif the ends s look thin.and i really dont want to go back to my old hairdresser because she was so scissor happy ..my lil sister, mom and i go to the salon there with a different hairdresser to get our hair braided there and one time the old hairdresser was saying that my she would do my old touch up for 5 dollars, she would never really listen to what i had to say and she would put me in her chair last before other customers and i really dont wanna go through that again. she stated that she cared and did not want to see my hair break but my hair has been thriving..oh well i dont feel like she is that sincere..
im so confused ill prob post a pic at what im talkin about
1.shouuld i relax
2. should i get a cut if so how much?
3.sholld i get another trim if so how much?
any other suggestions to what i should do?....im open
4. should o go to a white salon for tha trim/cut. b/c they wont offer a touch up like a black salon. well ladiess if you can help please respond.:-)

Hi Luv04,


your roots probably only look thin because your roots are so thick from new growth. I dont think you should cut anymore though. Give extra attention to your ends.

I would probably consider perming in the next week or so( Only if you want though)
are you trying to stretch for a certain amount of time? and how thin is thin? If you could post a pic that would help you to get more advice. I am a scissor happy person but I think that your hair just looks thin at the ends compared to the rest of your hair due to new growth....I hope I was helpful. :)
 
Luv04,

generally, the ends of the hair (being the oldest part of the shaft) can look thin. It also depends on how you care for the hair. The roots being the newest part of the hair always look thicker especially is other parts of your hair have been chemically processed.

Trim the ends only if you have split ends as the splits can travel up the shaft and cause your hair to look thin and see-through. If the ends aren't split, (an upside down Y shape or fork) just baby your ends more. Put activator type products like care free curl gold or s-curl followed by mango butter, posner bergamot, vaseline, and oils on the ends of your hair to protect them (these are a few of the things I use).

Look up baggie in a search. Use the baggie technique for your ends as often as you can. Also look up stretching relaxers or relaxer stretch to find out how you can manage your roots more effectively if you're stretching your touch-up.:)
 
Luv04,

So, I just looked at your hair pictures. Your hair looks wonderful and thick, I really honestly don't know what you're worrying about:)
 
well baileyscream i jus uploaded a pic did u see the ones with the end shot well,maybe i am worrying for nuthing but i am trying to strectch to 10-12 weeks it feels like im tranistioning though...hmm well im strecthing i have about 2-3 inches of new growth and im only 7 1/2 weeks past relaxer these vitamins and surge, and wgo are no joke.
 
BAILEYSCREAM said:
Luv04,

So, I just looked at your hair pictures. Your hair looks wonderful and thick, I really honestly don't know what you're worrying about:)
thanks for tha tips and also thankyou BMM
 
luv04 said:
well baileyscream i jus uploaded a pic did u see the ones with the end shot well,maybe i am worrying for nuthing but i am trying to strectch to 10-12 weeks it feels like im tranistioning though...hmm well im strecthing i have about 2-3 inches of new growth and im only 7 1/2 weeks past relaxer these vitamins and surge, and wgo are no joke.

LOL @ the WGO, surge and vits.......I know:lol:

Anyway, which picture is it? There are 99 pics so far in the first album. Your hair looks fine to me in all the pics I saw.
 
its the pics in the beg of the first album. there are three and i have them labeled "thin ends"...im going to take ur advice on babying tha ends though..
 
Luv04,

I went back to look at your ends they arent that bad, and I could only imagine they look better since your mom gave you a trip...just give them a little more TLC. Try the baggie method baileys, suggested you can do this nightly then wear in protective style during the day.

your hair is very beautiful dont worry...believe me!!
 
thanks im doing the baggie method as we speak i moisturized the ends to tha 10th power,,,lol. well i was jus freakin out but im straight now,,i washed then i conditioned the whole head with a choles treatment then i rollerset the whole head but on the ends i put the baggies on each section as i rolled them up. then i tied it up..i will be doing the baggie method more often to ensure no more thin ends.thanks everyone for their helpful tips and compliments ...happy growing ladies..
 
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