foxieroxienyc
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LONG POST ALERT!
I've been kind of lurking lately because I've been really busy and just have nothing much to add because it would all sound like
. Also I just haven't been feeling ok about my hair lately, because I get obsessive and needed to step back. My uneven trim gave me a little set back and I felt really crumby for playing with the metal devils. I'm getting over it because it's just hair and growing back.
I've realized my nape is a different texture than the rest of my hair. My hair is very fine, and I have thin strands that can be prone to breakage if I'm not careful. Back there, it's 4B, drier, grows a lot slower, and fragile. It needed more moisture and more attention... I failed to realize it early in my journey although I've kinda known this for years - I forgot. So needless to say my nape is about 1-1.5 inches shorter than the rest of my hair. I decided to put in 2 tracks to leave it alone and baby it. Also it helps my hair to look fuller and keeps the rest of my hair off my shoulders.
I had a relaxer at the end of April (11 week stretch). I'm a little upset that my stylist trimmed my hair when I had it relaxed 2 weeks before the pics below. So I had about an inch chopped off... But do remember the trimming mishap I had done myself, so she evened it off a little. So from NOW UNTIL 2009, no more trims.... I'll just do S&D once a month or as needed.
The tracks are also a little longer than my own hair, and it looked really weave like to me, it was LONGER than this pic, so I cut it down a little bit. The flash in this pic is making you see the difference between my hair and the tracks, but I think it's just because of the slight difference in texture and the products after a fresh wash/flat iron. You can't see that much of a difference in person. I'm on the fence about the tracks, I feel like I need it, but on the same token I feel like such a fraud... My stylist said to get over it, everyone does it - even the white girls (ESPECIALLY them). In fact I was in one of my local BSS and a white chick came in asking for hair to add tracks... She didn't even know what to ask for, just knew she wanted them REALLY LONG. And she already had long hair...
Although she trimmed (or CUT in my mind), I still maintained a lot of my length and I'm not at square one, my hair is at least evened out, but I want my V back... I only realized this AFTER I took these pics and saw my actual length, other wise I was freakin out and getting down about it. I thought I was back to around NL... I essentially went from NL to SL since Dec 2007, the start of my journey. I think I'm doing ok... I have a few more pics in my fotki.
In the past my hair used to be REALLY damaged and short in the middle of my scalp. It was always dry and rough and broken off to about 1 inch - sometimes less... It just amazes me now how it's all the same length as the rest of my hair. I used to think the rough broken hair was normal....
Set with Caruso Rollers:
So that's it, my update... Relaxer, tracks, trim, and some progress...
I've been kind of lurking lately because I've been really busy and just have nothing much to add because it would all sound like


I've realized my nape is a different texture than the rest of my hair. My hair is very fine, and I have thin strands that can be prone to breakage if I'm not careful. Back there, it's 4B, drier, grows a lot slower, and fragile. It needed more moisture and more attention... I failed to realize it early in my journey although I've kinda known this for years - I forgot. So needless to say my nape is about 1-1.5 inches shorter than the rest of my hair. I decided to put in 2 tracks to leave it alone and baby it. Also it helps my hair to look fuller and keeps the rest of my hair off my shoulders.
I had a relaxer at the end of April (11 week stretch). I'm a little upset that my stylist trimmed my hair when I had it relaxed 2 weeks before the pics below. So I had about an inch chopped off... But do remember the trimming mishap I had done myself, so she evened it off a little. So from NOW UNTIL 2009, no more trims.... I'll just do S&D once a month or as needed.
The tracks are also a little longer than my own hair, and it looked really weave like to me, it was LONGER than this pic, so I cut it down a little bit. The flash in this pic is making you see the difference between my hair and the tracks, but I think it's just because of the slight difference in texture and the products after a fresh wash/flat iron. You can't see that much of a difference in person. I'm on the fence about the tracks, I feel like I need it, but on the same token I feel like such a fraud... My stylist said to get over it, everyone does it - even the white girls (ESPECIALLY them). In fact I was in one of my local BSS and a white chick came in asking for hair to add tracks... She didn't even know what to ask for, just knew she wanted them REALLY LONG. And she already had long hair...

Although she trimmed (or CUT in my mind), I still maintained a lot of my length and I'm not at square one, my hair is at least evened out, but I want my V back... I only realized this AFTER I took these pics and saw my actual length, other wise I was freakin out and getting down about it. I thought I was back to around NL... I essentially went from NL to SL since Dec 2007, the start of my journey. I think I'm doing ok... I have a few more pics in my fotki.


In the past my hair used to be REALLY damaged and short in the middle of my scalp. It was always dry and rough and broken off to about 1 inch - sometimes less... It just amazes me now how it's all the same length as the rest of my hair. I used to think the rough broken hair was normal....

Set with Caruso Rollers:


So that's it, my update... Relaxer, tracks, trim, and some progress...