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Ever feel like instead of growing long your hair just finds new places to grow?

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PICS**Ever feel like instead of growing long your hair just finds new places to grow?

Ok, I finally have some pictures, they are not the best but I will try again this weekend after cowashing. Forgive the mess, I was visiting my mom and went to my younger sister's room to have her take the pictures.

The good thing about taking pictures is that it helps diagnose problems you may not even be aware of, for example, I had no idea that the back of my head was getting a little thin. Now that I know I am on a mission. I love ORS temple balm and 'baby don't be bald'-the blue one that smells a little like baby powder, it has some questionable ingredients, i.e. 'hormones' but it never fails to help regrow my edges. I still have some stray relaxed end to chop off.

Why is hair growing all the way down my neck? and I have to constantly shave my 'sideburns' sheesh, I want long hair not to be a hairy monster:blush:. Anyway here goes nothing.

I do, I have no problems growing hair, my new growth usually is very noticeable after a month in extensions, now my goal is to try to retain lenght.

Ok so my last relaxer was in April 2010, the weak relaxed hair was getting on my nerves... so I removed my extensions and cut off most of my relaxed hair yesterday (YEAH!!!), I will shape it and cut any little pieces i've missed as my hair grows.

The blessing and the curse is that my hair is THICKKKKKK!, I have about 5 inches of hair and I started twisting it into pencil size twist and after two hours I was nowhere near to being done (not even close to the middle of my head), so I gave up and just put it in big cornrows which I will wear under wigs for the next month.

It was as I was trying to twist my hair that I remember being in the bathroom for over two hours crying when I was 10 (the age my dad decided I was old enough to do my own hair). It was total Deja Vu, I swear I wanted to cry. My arms were killing me from having it up so long. I will have to start lifting weights just to be able to do my hair, I was tired and couldn't see the end. I was at once scared and excited to think of having to do my hair when it gets longer, I have to train myself now, so that I don't fall back to relaxer or damage my hair.

But even with all this I am determined to remain natural, and limit the heat that I put on my head to no more that twice a year because my hair really is healthier now than it ever was relaxed.

I will be stalking some people on here and fotki to pick up some hints on how to do my hair.

I will update later with pics.
 

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2 hours... and you weren't done. Woah!

Sorry, can you provide a pic?

I'm really amazed and curious when people say it takes that long.

I think it's because I don't do small twists/braids.... so spending more than 10-15mins on my hair sounds crazy.

ETA: Sorry, I just saw the bit when you said you would update with pics later on.

It's alright.. it'll get easier when you find quicker methods? lol.. I'm sorry, I duno what advice to give. Good luck.. and don't give up. Lots of people would die for thicker hair.
 
Congrats on your BC!!! I feel you on the thickness! This is the same exact reason I decided to relax at 14! My mom wouldn't do my hair for me anymore and it was too thick for me to deal with on my own. It never really got that long either, but had no problem getting thicker and thicker.

I know this sounds cheesy, but everything will get quicker with time. I'm no expert (I'm just now becoming natural again myself), but I find that the more I insist on doing twists or whatever, no matter how long they take, the better I get at it and the faster I'm finished. I know I need to get some practice in because when it gets longer, it'll be an even bigger pain, but at least I'll be used to dealing with it. HHG and I can't wait to see some pics :)
 
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Two more, I had a serious case of helmet head, I was terrified that I would not be able to detangle it, but it was easy to detange with my leave in.
Ok, I finally have some pictures, they are not the best but I will try again this weekend after cowashing. Forgive the mess, I was visiting my mom and went to my younger sister's room to have her take the pictures.

The good thing about taking pictures is that it helps diagnose problems you may not even be aware of, for example, I had no idea that the back of my head was getting a little thin. Now that I know I am on a mission. I love ORS temple balm and 'baby don't be bald'-the blue one that smells a little like baby powder, it has some questionable ingredients, i.e. 'hormones' but it never fails to help regrow my edges. I still have some stray relaxed end to chop off.

Why is hair growing all the way down my neck? and I have to constantly shave my 'sideburns' sheesh, I want long hair not to be a hairy monster:blush:. Anyway here goes nothing.

I do, I have no problems growing hair, my new growth usually is very noticeable after a month in extensions, now my goal is to try to retain lenght.

Ok so my last relaxer was in April 2010, the weak relaxed hair was getting on my nerves... so I removed my extensions and cut off most of my relaxed hair yesterday (YEAH!!!), I will shape it and cut any little pieces i've missed as my hair grows.

The blessing and the curse is that my hair is THICKKKKKK!, I have about 5 inches of hair and I started twisting it into pencil size twist and after two hours I was nowhere near to being done (not even close to the middle of my head), so I gave up and just put it in big cornrows which I will wear under wigs for the next month.

It was as I was trying to twist my hair that I remember being in the bathroom for over two hours crying when I was 10 (the age my dad decided I was old enough to do my own hair). It was total Deja Vu, I swear I wanted to cry. My arms were killing me from having it up so long. I will have to start lifting weights just to be able to do my hair, I was tired and couldn't see the end. I was at once scared and excited to think of having to do my hair when it gets longer, I have to train myself now, so that I don't fall back to relaxer or damage my hair.

But even with all this I am determined to remain natural, and limit the heat that I put on my head to no more that twice a year because my hair really is healthier now than it ever was relaxed.

I will be stalking some people on here and fotki to pick up some hints on how to do my hair.

I will update later with pics.
 

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