S/Os and DHs that KNOW you wear wigs. What does he say?

[glamazon386]

SO doesn't care. But I was wearing a wig when I met him. :shrug: Most of the guys I dated in the past didn't really care either. I never took my wig off in their presence though. They never knew I wore wigs unless I told them. I guess they just assumed it was a weave.

 

[Rei]

Think of it this way, wouldn't you give a side eye to a dude wearing a toupee? i imagine its the same thing for dudes. Plus they like to touch, and they usually can't when you're wearing a wig, its not the same.

 

[MsLizziA]

Think of it this way, wouldn't you give a side eye to a dude wearing a toupee? i imagine its the same thing for dudes. Plus they like to touch, and they usually can't when you're wearing a wig, its not the same.

Actually if I couldn't tell that it was a toupee, I wouldn't care. Even if I found out it was one and it looked nice, I still wouldn t care


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[mzsophisticated26]

He does not care as long as it looks good and dont have crazy colors. I only like jet black hair anyway so its works. He understands that I have hair goals and since we have been together I have always had a short tapered cut, so me growing my hair long is new to him anyway. When I am at home, the wigs comes off but my hair is still in braids or bun underneath my wig.

 

[Tiye]

There needs to be a spinoff thread (if there isn't already) about how we feel about men wearing hair pieces or getting hair transplants? I'm glad to see that there are a few men that are supportive of our wig-wearing, but what if the shoe was on the other foot?

I wouldn't care about a toupee - hairloss is not an easy thing to cope with. Who am I to demand that another person walk around with a naked head just to make me feel better?

The title of this thread makes me laugh coz how would your dh NOT know that you wear a wig?? I can see how some women manage to keep it hidden from SO's - but that would get old. My dh doesn't mind what I do with my hair but then again he also knows I'm not a one hairstyle kinda woman. Over the years I've worn just about every hairstyle there is - I've been curious about hair trends and picking my hair styles out of fashion magazines since I was 5 and will try just about anything once. So a man who has problems with this just isn't the man for me.

BTW I like wigs and hair pieces but I'm not exactly at home with the scalped and severed heads (mannequin heads) thing either.

 

[lydc]

SO hates it, we had a conversation yesterday when he said "Am I ever going to be able to touch your natural hair, that's one of the things that I love about you". I was like sure in April when this challenge is over. LOL!!!!!!!!!

 

[mswright00]

My DH does not like them. I tells me all the time that if I keep wearing them that my hair is going to fall out.. Lol... He has a sister who wears wigs day and night, and now she does not have any hair. Sorry, I only wear my wigs on and off for protective styling or if I am have a bad hair day. I especially wear them when I am at the club.

He also calls them my little puppies, and when he sees me with one on he begins to bark...

 

[PPGbubbles]

My SO is supportive of my journey and likes when I rock "natural" looking hair....he recently made a request for me to rock a longer one because he wants to see what it will look like when I finish growing my hair out.

 

[PittiPat]

LOL. That's how my hubby is ... "Honey, you should wear Beyonce today; oh yea, wear Sasha this weekend" (yeah, I name my wigs). "Sashas" are normally short and curly; "Beyonces" are long and straight. Basically, he's okay with them.

He says "I like this one so I picked it up"
I say "um okay thanks" put it on
He says "mmm I don't like as much as this one" another one appears
I say "ok thanks" side eye & put it on
4 months pass " I like that one a lot"
smh roflmao (it's the one he said he didn't like too much"
In other words he says a lot but he buys them a lot too so I just smile and nod lol
I think he likes me in wigs more than I do lol

 

[Rei]

this may be true but you have to admit that you're in the minority there. I mean, I would imagine that most people would find that a bit strange, especially if the dude had hair under there and wasn't bald/balding. I'm not bashing wigs, I also wear fake hair sometimes (I've done it less often recently though), but I understand why dudes don't like it/think its weird.

 

[Tamrin]

Driving home. I chillin in the passenger side. He looks over. Does a double take.
Him: You look so different
Me: Huh
He looks again and smile
Me: WHaaat? it looks that bad
Him: No. You look different
I roll my eyes " Just drive"

 

[gabulldawg]

I get compliments all the time. Variety is the spice of life

Same here. DH likes my hair however I wear it. Since we've been together I've had my hair short, worn weaves, wigs, and tree braids. That's one of the things I love about him. He lets me be my crazy self.

 

[divachyk]

nothing although he calls it my "pet" -- he says -- "hey bae', it's rain in the forecast today, you might want to wear your pet to keep your hair protected" or "do you need to go shopping for another pet."

 

[fivetimestwo]

My DH doesn't mind me wearing wigs, though I don't wear them that often anyway. As long as I'm not wearing it to bed, he's okay with whatever I do.

 

[Vishus]

LOL. That's how my hubby is ... "Honey, you should wear Beyonce today; oh yea, wear Sasha this weekend" (yeah, I name my wigs). "Sashas" are normally short and curly; "Beyonces" are long and straight. Basically, he's okay with them.

Same here. My DH is fine with them. He likes the variety of looks.

 

[MsPlatinumbsf]

He says oh babes you look so nice, if you take the wig off you will look even nicer. Then when I do wear my hair he be like that is a nice wig to babes, because some of my wigs is just like my hair so he be getting tied up. But he already know that is a fight he will never win so he understands I do not complain about the football game so he not allowed to complain about the wig.

 

[ParagonTresses]

double post

 

[ParagonTresses]

I met my friend during the summer months, my wash and go season. As fall approached I "forewarned" him about my protective style choice so it wouldn't be so shocking. He seems to like it ok, every week he asks "so which one of your girls will I meet this time." The compliments are still coming so I guess he's cool...I on the other hand really like what wigs are doing for my hair so he'll be strong if he doesn't like 'em...