So I need everyone’s help. I go through this all the time because I want to be natural. I found LHCF because I wanted to be natural and I quickly changed my mind. So now, there’s a girl/woman who comes to my bank and she’s just cut all her hair off to grow it out natural. OMG
because of her I want to grow my hair out naturally again (it would be funny if she was on this board too). So I was sitting here thinking about and I’m think of it texturizing. Right now I’m just texlaxed/relaxed.
I’m so confused though. Like I was telling my friend he just shook his head at me and called me a confused child.
I don’t want to cut my hair. *Disclaimer* I’ve cut my hair off before I’ve cut it from BSL to ear length getting ready to go BC later on, and then quit that idea. So natural is out of the picture. But I’m in the North Jersey, Passiac, Essex, Bergen county area. I haven’t found hardly any non bias stylist to ask questions so hopefully ya’ll can help me. I’m not willingly to do it myself since I’ve had a bad experience before.
Can I just start texlaxing my hair less than I do so that it’s just curlier? Is texlaxing even a term that stylist know?
Can texturized and texlaxed hair survive together on the same head?
Does anyone in my area know of a stylist that is good with natural and tex hair? I know of a natural one but she was really not helping me and was starting to irritate me when I was asking her question, since she was acting like I was irritating her.
Any info or stories anyone has would be appreciated? Is this how the natural’s feel when they want to relax?
Do any relaxed heads feel like this? Has anyone gone back and forth before?

I’m so confused though. Like I was telling my friend he just shook his head at me and called me a confused child.

Can I just start texlaxing my hair less than I do so that it’s just curlier? Is texlaxing even a term that stylist know?
Can texturized and texlaxed hair survive together on the same head?
Does anyone in my area know of a stylist that is good with natural and tex hair? I know of a natural one but she was really not helping me and was starting to irritate me when I was asking her question, since she was acting like I was irritating her.
Any info or stories anyone has would be appreciated? Is this how the natural’s feel when they want to relax?
Do any relaxed heads feel like this? Has anyone gone back and forth before?