So I thought it might be best to start a new thread about it since Sareca's thread about meeting a LHCFer in person was getting hijacked. The discussion came up here:
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=322031
and also Sareca talks about it here:
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?p=6607743
She also kindly posted charts for hard water regions in both the U.S. and Canada:
U.S. :
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=6607287&postcount=45
Canada:
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=6607443&postcount=50
As Sereca pointed out water filters and water softeners are different things. I bought a water filter for my shower, but couldn't figure out how to get it attached. I don't think I can because my fixtures are really really old. Nonie asked:
Here are the pics:


I want to experience this hair and skin-changing miracle.
Can I do it? Advice for me, please??
Also if you wash with filtered water, distilled water, or softened water, please share your experiences.
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=322031
and also Sareca talks about it here:
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?p=6607743
She also kindly posted charts for hard water regions in both the U.S. and Canada:
U.S. :
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=6607287&postcount=45
Canada:
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=6607443&postcount=50
As Sereca pointed out water filters and water softeners are different things. I bought a water filter for my shower, but couldn't figure out how to get it attached. I don't think I can because my fixtures are really really old. Nonie asked:
Mwedzi, what do your fixtures look like? I have an old one too; the kind where the hose is attached to a shower head and is only held up to the wall by a brace. I didn't think I could find a filter but I did. So can you find share a picture of what your shower looks like? I'm pretty sure there's something for it.
Here are the pics:


I want to experience this hair and skin-changing miracle.
Can I do it? Advice for me, please??Also if you wash with filtered water, distilled water, or softened water, please share your experiences.
And in my new apartment, the water is probably the hardest I've ever experienced.
It even tastes hard.
I want to look into that shower stick Sereca uses , but I guess I need to know how easy it is to intsall and remove. I'm in a brand new apartment and I don't want to tear up anything and make people angry. 
Hope we'll see you at the winter meet-up! That water stick looks pretty easy to install. I'd get it but I'm not sure it's compatible with my shower. I know what you mean by craptastic. The water in my friend's apt. is even worse. It actually smells, coming straight from the shower. I've never seen/smelled anything like it. I think I'm going to bring the shower filter I bought (which doesn't fit my shower) and try to put it in his.