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The Komaza protein sat in my hair pretty much all day and overnight. My hair did not suffer .. lol

I shampooed it out after my morning walk, and now I'm sitting under my steamer with this NaturelleGrow protein-free conditioner.

It's so nice. I was impressed as soon as I put tje NG on my hair.
 
The Komaza protein sat in my hair pretty much all day and overnight. My hair did not suffer .. lol

I shampooed it out after my morning walk, and now I'm sitting under my steamer with this NaturelleGrow protein-free conditioner.

It's so nice. I was impressed as soon as I put tje NG on my hair.

I loved that protein when I used to use it. Their shampoo and conditioner were also my favourite. After they stopped selling products for a few years, I decided never again to be dependant on a brand for my hair care and switched "fully" to DIY (the only commercial product in my line up is a scalp exfoliator.) Also, shipping to Canada was a lot, so I'm not sure that I could have sustained it. I might splurge and buy some stuff from them in the future.
 
I loved that protein when I used to use it. Their shampoo and conditioner were also my favourite. After they stopped selling products for a few years, I decided never again to be dependant on a brand for my hair care and switched "fully" to DIY (the only commercial product in my line up is a scalp exfoliator.) Also, shipping to Canada was a lot, so I'm not sure that I could have sustained it. I might splurge and buy some stuff from them in the future.

I was so impressed with the Komaza protein & I just went to their site to order another bottle and they are out of stock on almost everything...if not everything. No Bueno.

What is your DIY protein mix?
 
I loved that protein when I used to use it. Their shampoo and conditioner were also my favourite. After they stopped selling products for a few years, I decided never again to be dependant on a brand for my hair care and switched "fully" to DIY (the only commercial product in my line up is a scalp exfoliator.) Also, shipping to Canada was a lot, so I'm not sure that I could have sustained it. I might splurge and buy some stuff from them in the future.
A third for aloe- especially the bitter juice- making my hair feel hard. I can use fresh aloe to DC fine, but I haven’t created a DIY hair product for ages. I was also a fan of NG, before hiatus. A lot of my faves stopped shipping to the UK a few years ago- NG, Annabelle’s Perfect Blends (APB), She Scent It:cry4:, so I had to make do with what was readily available.
 
@GGsKin
NG does it too (takes breaks from selling product)??

Awwe no.

Here I am. I decided 2025 and beyond to only use a simplified list of product and try to only stick to small Black owned women businesses.

Another 1st time rave from today- Amika Wizard detangler/ heat protector
 
EASIEST
Avocado Mayo
Greek Yogurt (Optional)
Honey (Optional 1TSP - 1TBSP)

FAVS
Henna (every 4 to 6 weeks) - Do 2 Step or 1 Step Indigo if you don't like red toned hair. 2 Step Indigo will make your hair the darkest
Cassia + Growth Herbs (As often as needed)

Avocado mayo and honey sound good.
Thank you!!

I'm never dealing with Indian powders again.I used to be all into it.. not at this stage. I've decided no messy powders/ clays.
 
I was so impressed with the Komaza protein & I just went to their site to order another bottle and they are out of stock on almost everything...if not everything. No Bueno.

What is your DIY protein mix?

So, right now -- and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right or if I'm just wasting products -- I just add hydrolyzed proteins straight into my ayurvedic clay masks. Depending on what I feel inspired to use, I'll add a combination or none of the following:

- hydrolyzed jojoba, quinoa, lupine, rice, baobab or bamboo liquid extract.

In terms of what will make the cut each time

- amino acids (methionine, cystine, cysteine), hydrolyzed keratin, silk amino acid (SAA)

Sometimes, I will add a tsp of ACV to the mix, because I read somewhere that proteins should be in an acidic base, but I also use goat's milk powder which seems to drop the pH of the clay. It might be a redundant step.


@yaya24 ETA I would just add the above to a store bought conditioner. I don't know if you recognize any of those hydrolyzed proteins, but I snatched them from the Komaza ingredient list.
 
I just saw that you use "fresh aloe"

Maybe you should experiment again to see if it is the quality of aloe or what it's mixed with? Coconut oil is used in combination with aloe in many products

The only aloe I used is Organic +99% fresh pressed aloe that keeps some of the enzyme activity


Nah. I'm good for now. I only buy raw oils and other ingredients from wholesalers, not the grocery store. It's much more cost effective for me and I don't have to worry about it being blended with anything.

I've tried aloe juice (was ok as a final rinse, but completely unnecessary), aloe oil (nope), haven't tried aloe butter. I've used aloe powder and it's ok, I guess. I have some that I need to use up, but it won't be on any future re-purchase lists unless I have a recipe that I really want to try. As I mentioned, I gave up store bought products with aloe pretty early in my journey. I also gave up products with coconut oil and shea butter. This is why I make my own hair lotions.

Instead of coconut, I use babassu. My hair much prefers it. Although I might try coconut MTC (again -- I tried it about 10 years ago). I've been following someone on re.d.dit who used MTC to chelate their hair before switching to distilled water. If I can figure out how to make distilled water work with masks I might make the switch as well.

I also do not use shea. Both shea and coconut oil harden my hair, but I think that shea is worse. I've tried different raw brands and different products. Not worth it. I prefer tallow to shea and it's changed my hair for the better.
 
So, right now -- and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right or if I'm just wasting products -- I just add hydrolyzed proteins straight into my ayurvedic clay masks. Depending on what I feel inspired to use, I'll add a combination or none of the following:

- hydrolyzed jojoba, quinoa, lupine, rice, baobab or bamboo liquid extract.

In terms of what will make the cut each time

- amino acids (methionine, cystine, cysteine), hydrolyzed keratin, silk amino acid (SAA)

Sometimes, I will add a tsp of ACV to the mix, because I read somewhere that proteins should be in an acidic base, but I also use goat's milk powder which seems to drop the pH of the clay. It might be a redundant step.


@yaya24 ETA I would just add the above to a store bought conditioner. I don't know if you recognize any of those hydrolyzed proteins, but I snatched them from the Komaza ingredient list.

I still have SAA in my stash that I use for my DIY skin oil mix.

Before I started rebuilding my hair products for 2025, for protein I would add neutral protein filler or duotex (what I have left of it) to whatever mositurizing conditioner I have on hand. This works fine.

I still have those products in my cabinet.

Really loved the Komaza protein, and a little goes a long way but don't want to be sol when I really need it.
 
Wow you are really in tune with your hair which is great! Never heard someone say Shea Butter hardens their hair

I created a homemade pomade with tallow and coconut oil last year since I like health benefits of tallow. I use tallow for a variety of things and had not heard of anyone use it for hair. Surprised you use tallow too

Im just now using the pomade since joining LHCF. I was thinking for the next pomade to add Shea Butter since I recently got some for DCs, but after what you said I probably stick to tallow and coconut oil. Shea butter seems to work well for DCs so far


Really?! There are a LOT of us out here who can't use it without feeling that effect.

I LOOOOOVVVEEE tallow. I usually mix it with glycerine, but this batch that I'm using now I've added batana oil to. It's even more buttery. I'm not sure that it'll be a long term staple, but I have enough that I should be able to make this recipe at least to the end of the year. I've never tried cooking with tallow, so that'll be something to source and try.

Do you add melted shea to your DC? How do you use it as a DC?
 
Nah. I'm good for now. I only buy raw oils and other ingredients from wholesalers, not the grocery store. It's much more cost effective for me and I don't have to worry about it being blended with anything.

I've tried aloe juice (was ok as a final rinse, but completely unnecessary), aloe oil (nope), haven't tried aloe butter. I've used aloe powder and it's ok, I guess. I have some that I need to use up, but it won't be on any future re-purchase lists unless I have a recipe that I really want to try. As I mentioned, I gave up store bought products with aloe pretty early in my journey. I also gave up products with coconut oil and shea butter. This is why I make my own hair lotions.

Instead of coconut, I use babassu. My hair much prefers it. Although I might try coconut MTC (again -- I tried it about 10 years ago). I've been following someone on re.d.dit who used MTC to chelate their hair before switching to distilled water. If I can figure out how to make distilled water work with masks I might make the switch as well.

I also do not use shea. Both shea and coconut oil harden my hair, but I think that shea is worse. I've tried different raw brands and different products. Not worth it. I prefer tallow to shea and it's changed my hair for the better.

I was about to do another DIY, but with coconut milk and decided to update that this ingredient is a coconut exception for my hair.
 
I was thinking about flax. Again, this is something that I tried YEARS ago. I feel like it might be a no. Someone out here mentioned chia, so I'll have to remember to try it when I take my twists down.

Cloves are another trend that dried out my hair.
I know you can blend chia smooth but I jus pictured my hair with cha cha chia growing out of it :rofl: I'm going to pass on that one
 
1. Heat. My hair gets easily damaged by heat. So much that my hair length remained stagnant in 2024 because I got my hair blowdried monthly to get knotless braids
Sorry to hear that, since I love Knotless Braids too!
Was it the heat or the manipulation (combing through the hair) of blow drying? Did the stylist blow dry or did you blow dry yourself? Traditional blow drying with a comb attachment or paddle brush really depends on technique (detangling, leave ins, handling of combs/paddle brush, etc) to prevent damage to your ends
It was both the heat and the over manipulation with the comb attachment. My hair hates heat, and combined with the comb attachment, instant death. There's a time I flat ironed my hair once for a length check in '15, and I had horrific damage even though I had prepped my hair thoroughly and used minimal passes/lowest heat setting
2. Protective styles like knotless braids make me neglect my hair, so it gets weak
Maybe reserve Knotless Braids for Holidays and wear them for 3 to 4 weeks Max
I used to keep them in for 4 weeks, but it didn't help. I need at minimum weekly deep conditioning for optimal hair health. So if I do braids, I do them myself, and keep them in for 2 weeks max.
3. Hard water. We have hard water, but recently installed a water softening system so hopefully this helps
Malibu C has the best shampoo for removing hardwater. Makes your hair feel so soft! They are on the pricey side, but its worth it! Here's the link to their shampoo I have used (https://malibuc.com/products/hard-water-wellness-shampoo?variant=31714228731967)
:cry: I can't find a lot of products here, so I have to make do with what I get
4. Laziness. I get so lazy I neglect my hair
Lets stay connected to stay motivated to reach our goals :)

Sounds like a plan, I would love to have healthy MBL hair by my 40th birthday


5. Letting my hair shrink. This causes knots that are a nightmare to detangle, and I get impatient. But since @Chicoro put me onto shea butter, the knotting is minimal, and only happens when I do not use a butter
Interesting about the butter, glad it's working for you! I don't use butter, how are you using it?
Other people I've heard that had issues with knots, their solution was keeping their hair "stretched". You can braid/twist your hair after washing and let it air dry stretched or you can use whatever preferred method to "stretch" your hair to reduce knots. I think I saw earlier that you are "threading" your hair which is better than braiding/twists for stretching the hair. Do you have issues even when you "thread" your hair? I might have "thread" wrong but that's all I can think to call it right now :laugh:
With the butters, I use them to seal in my leave in after my wash day, and sometimes apply a bit on my edges during the week. There are times when I may be found massaging a small amount into my scalp. I think it helps with sealing the hair cuticle and reducing frizz as well as hair strand friction against other strands. The African threading is definitely my go to for stretching hair. It's easy and quick. Only problem you can have is if you use too much tension, I made that mistake once, and had breakage and my scalp was angry at me. I definitely wont use that much tension again
 
It was both the heat and the over manipulation with the comb attachment. My hair hates heat, and combined with the comb attachment, instant death. There's a time I flat ironed my hair once for a length check in '15, and I had horrific damage even though I had prepped my hair thoroughly and used minimal passes/lowest heat setting

I used to keep them in for 4 weeks, but it didn't help. I need at minimum weekly deep conditioning for optimal hair health. So if I do braids, I do them myself, and keep them in for 2 weeks max.

:cry: I can't find a lot of products here, so I have to make do with what I get

With the butters, I use them to seal in my leave in after my wash day, and sometimes apply a bit on my edges during the week. There are times when I may be found massaging a small amount into my scalp. I think it helps with sealing the hair cuticle and reducing frizz as well as hair strand friction against other strands. The African threading is definitely my go to for stretching hair. It's easy and quick. Only problem you can have is if you use too much tension, I made that mistake once, and had breakage and my scalp was angry at me. I definitely wont use that much tension again

Can you describe your hair strands, please? I ask because I went to a stylist a few years ago. I found her on Instagram and she does amazing silk presses. We agreed that we'd only do a blow out on my hair and she said that my hair couldn't handle heat and if I came back she probably wouldn't even do a blow out on my hair. In 12 years, I only tried pressing my hair once and that was really early on. I let my mom do it, but I was so paranoid that she didn't have good hair practices and it turned out pretty bad. (My fault.) I went to Great Clips for them to trim my ends. It was years later that I went to the Instagram stylist and that was the second and only other time that I can remember going to a stylist for my natural hair. Since then, I haven't used any heat on my hair other than a heating cap for DCs.

My strands are fine/medium and on the cottony side. I'm curious if our textures are the same any what would make hair not deal with heat properly.

As for the hard water, is it possible to source citric acid? I managed to find some the other day at my local bulk store in the baking section. I'm going to try using it and see what happens. You're supposed to only use a tiny amount in the water. I can't remember how much, but I know that there are older posts that talk about it. We're talking fractions of a teaspoon to gallons of water, tiny. Some people will also do a final vinegar rinse to help.

As for the threading, I saw a video where a lady braided her roots and threaded her ends. It was so pretty and looked just as neat. A variation of that could be an option for you. If I can find it, I will post here for you.
 
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