I have no problem with shrinkage. Shrinkage allows me to wear my hair in a variety of different styles. I see type 4 naturals wearing afros and puffs all the time, including at formal events and at work.
I do feel like it's normal to want to do something different to your hair for a formal event. Natural hair can definitely be elegant, that doesn't mean every natural style is appropriate for every setting.
There's also nothing wrong with stretching your hair, and even with stretched styles you will get shrinkage. My hair is TBL and my twist outs still shrink to shoulder length.
I don't wear shrunken puffs and afros because of tangles, but there's nothing wrong with the style. Bottom line, wear your hair however you want.
I do feel like it's normal to want to do something different to your hair for a formal event. Natural hair can definitely be elegant, that doesn't mean every natural style is appropriate for every setting.
There's also nothing wrong with stretching your hair, and even with stretched styles you will get shrinkage. My hair is TBL and my twist outs still shrink to shoulder length.
I don't wear shrunken puffs and afros because of tangles, but there's nothing wrong with the style. Bottom line, wear your hair however you want.