delta_gyrl said:What if you're a woman with very long hair? Should you cut it? As long as you can pull your hair back neatly there shouldn't be a problem.
DH's closest male friend is a cop and he caught hayle for wearing cornrows. He finally cut his hair b/c they hassled him so much.
How did they hassle your husband's friend? Did they write him up or threaten to? Give him a crappy schedule? Sometimes one has to decide which battles they want to fight, if you will.
that was sarcasm right
They may not have directly said that hair must be worn straight, but that is what they have said essentially. Depending on the texture and length of a Black woman's hair, if she is not allowed to wear twists, cornrows or locks, there is not much left for her to do but cut it into a short fro or straighten it in order to conform to their guidelines. And I have a huge problem with our hairstyles being lumped into the same category as mohawks and extreme hair colors. A mohawk is a “faddish†style. Dying your hair green or hot pink is “faddish.†But twists, locks and cornrows are black hairstyles. There are ways of cornrowing or twisting ones hair that are less professional than others and there are ways of styling one's locks that are less professional than other, but the styles in and of themselves are not “faddish†and are far from being generally unprofessional. 