faithVA
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Thank you. Literally inching along.Congratulations!

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Thank you. Literally inching along.Congratulations!
Your long bob is pretty.It's been two months so I went to my hair appointment for another smoothing treatment and trim. Got bangs this time too! I look like a different person... it will take sometime to get used to but I do like the bangs. I did get a little bit of growth. Honestly, I am enjoying the long bob.
Your hair looks very healthy and sleek. How often do you have your smoothing treatment?It's been two months so I went to my hair appointment for another smoothing treatment and trim. Got bangs this time too! I look like a different person... it will take sometime to get used to but I do like the bangs. I did get a little bit of growth. Honestly, I am enjoying the long bob.
Thank you! This is my first touch up with the Qiqi smoothing treatment. It's been two months since I had it done initially. I think I am going to aim for 2-3 month between treatments since I want to also keep up with trims.Your hair looks very healthy and sleek. How often do you have your smoothing treatment?
I'm glad it's working well for youThank you! This is my first touch up with the Qiqi smoothing treatment. It's been two months since I had it done initially. I think I am going to aim for 2-3 month between treatments since I want to also keep up with trims.
As soon as I get back from Portugal, I will have a full hair care day and check my ends. I found some splits on shed hair, I definitely believe it to have been the tangle teezer. I'm going to have pull out my Denman 38p mini paddle brush, while I'm still researching detangling brushes.Alright Ladies,
We are fast approaching the end of August 2025.
Sign up for the text messages or emails or whichever. They send out a monthly 40% off one product without fail. And between those they have 20% of this or that. Of course they have bumped up the price but at 40% off you are still saving especially if it is something you just want to try out.@faithVA
I got extra bucks for hair care products at CVS and thought nothing of it and discarded them. Now, I am going to be smart like you and retain those receipts and use them for hair care products, too! I love the fact that you have had realizations.
I know you are busy but it sounds like you are starting to settle in. Thoughts and prayers with you!August 2025 Update:
I have been back in the United States, permanently, since July 26th. I have not washed my hair. I feel like I broke into the US atmosphere like a space capsule returning to the Earth's atmosphere. I have had to hit the ground running and burning. I am caring for my mother and she has so many needs. The GREAT thing is that I have had the luxury to cultivate my hair care process in France over many years so I am on a healthy auto-pilot with my hair.
How are you progressing?
I have not checked in with my progress. I am trying to keep my hair braided and protected. I undo and re-do my braids gently and continue to use my S-Curl and Shea butter on my ends. People in Los Angeles stop me as I go about my business and comment that I have such beautiful hair.
What are those ends looking like?
I haven't seen my ends since my last trim in April. August is the month I am supposed to trim. I would like to get a blow dryer with a comb and get some scissors to trim my ends. It seems I am right on time for my second (2nd) four (4) month trim. I trim my ends every four (4) months in 2025. I changed from trimming every three (3) months like I did in 2024.
Have you had any epiphanies?
No epiphanies but just reminders, in the form of tangles on the ends of my hair, that I MUST protect and tuck away my ends. If I wear my braids out for even a few hours they curl up into balled knots and I instantly lose length.
Have you set bolder goals?
No. I am would like to go through 2025 to see how this every four (4) month trim cycle does for my hair. I can compare it with my 2025 three (3) month trim cycle to determine which one may work better for me. I'm not feeling bold right now. I am trying to stay in a safe harbor with my hair as I have had so many abrupt changes in my life since April 2025.
Have you pulled back on some goals?
No, not really. I love the certainty and surety of my protected, braided style. It keeps breakage and tangles to a minimum and I enjoy the hairstyle. I feel beautiful with my hair like this and am comforted by the fact that my hair is protected.
Have you had any realizations about your hair or your hair care practices?
A reminder more so. I have not been home in my Southern California sunlight in a long time. Normally when I visit I am just ripping and running. Now, as I care for my mother and her needs, I am doing things more methodically and reflect as I drive about town running errands. The sun here bounces off and reflects my hair like no other place I have lived. So, I enjoy the gleam and shine of my hair in the sunglight here.
How is your consistency?
I am quite consistent in keeping my hair protected. I use my fingers to detangle when I re-do my braids. I don't keep my hair covered at night and I want to go back to that.
Extending grace to you?
Absolutely! I take time to do my hair when I am going out and I do it gently. I appreciate my hair and myself. It helps to keep my cup full as I care for my mother and her needs. When I extend grace to myself, I can better extend grace to my mother. So it is PARAMOUNT that I practice extending grace to myself at this point and time in my life.