Based on some pics that I see it appears that a lot of the naturals hair textures actually looks less coarse now that they are natural in opposed to relaxed. Example someone that looked 4a with relaxed hair now natural looks 3b or c? Does that makes sense? Are my eyes playing tricks on me?

It looks mullety when I wash n go, so I have to tease the nape to be as short as the rest.
I love my texture and plan to go natural in the future, but it is what it is... 