Nonie
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@Nonie..in a previous post you said you'd "been there". When you were having challenges with split ends did you cut all of the damage off or just start a trimming regime that eventually took care of the problem over time? I tend to do S&D's every few weeks and trims every six months but I've been grazing APL for a while now....would love to claim it fully soon.
caliscurls, I cut off all the damage...because leaving any behind just means it continues to tear up the strands hence why I was stuck at SL.
Trimming every 6 months may work for some (esp those with coarse strands) but for me, waiting 4 months would mean having to cut off 2 inches. That's what happened to me. When I decided to try not dusting every 8 weeks and waited double that time, my strands were so thin--meaning breakage was occurring--that I had to cut off the 2 inches. If I had left them there, they'd break off themselves...and don't forget a break isn't clean but just tears further up the strand so I'd have lost more hair.
I suppose if a cut is scary or too much, you can do what I do which is braid up my hair after cutting so I can forget about it and give it time to grow some w/o being aware of how short it is. Alternatively, you can do what others do with is dust more frequently than you will normally do so you quickly remove the damage w/o it being a drastic change. The only thing with this is you would have to really baby your hair so that the damage already there doesn't just cost you all you grow in the time you're waiting. Personally, since damage never stops once it starts, it's just better to get rid of it and then from that point on, dust before it ever gets that far. And if you do it sooner, you can feel "safe" taking off just a tiny bit because you can feel confident that you didn't wait till it was too late.