Shorthaircareforum discussion board - Post #1

[harrison]

My hair is beneath my ear but above the shoulder.. and its an awkward length for me. I'm natural and typically wear two-strand twists. When I unravel the strands I'm left with a semi wavy fro. But I can only wear that style for a couple of days... so I need to add some variety to my styles. Any suggestions would be great!

 

[sikora]

How do you cross wrap? i hear people talk about it all the time, but can never grasp the concept. I hate to do a regular wrap and end up with that one jacked up side. Glad to see it is working for you.

Part your hair down the center. Wrap the left side toward the right and wrap the right side toward the left.

 

[Cayenne0622]

This is my crosswrap last year when my hair was shorter. Its really easy.

 

[bun-bun]

This is my crosswrap last year when my hair was shorter. Its really easy.

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Looks good! But don't you get a bend in the back??

Sikora said:
Part your hair down the center. Wrap the left side toward the right and wrap the right side toward the left.

Trying to visualize......so all the hair is combed to the front w/ a part in the back???? Sorry I'm a little slow right now

 

[Cayenne0622]

Looks good! But don't you get a bend in the back??

Sikora said:
Part your hair down the center. Wrap the left side toward the right and wrap the right side toward the left.

Trying to visualize......so all the hair is combed to the front w/ a part in the back???? Sorry I'm a little slow right now

You get the same kind of curve that you would get if you did a regular wrap. I believe KhandiB has a good picture tutorial in her fotki. You wouldn't necessarily do a hard part down the middle, you can use your fingers just to separat your hair down the middle so you have two sections. You take your left section of hair (kind of like gathering it for a ponytail) and wrap it toward the right side of your head and pin it there. Then you gather the right section of hair (that is still hanging down) and wrap it toward the left side of your head and pin it. Since you started with the left section it should be higher on the back of your head and the right section should be below it. It's like you've crisscrossed your hair in the back.
I'm sorry if that confuses you more.

 

[bun-bun]

You get the same kind of curve that you would get if you did a regular wrap. I believe KhandiB has a good picture tutorial in her fotki. You wouldn't necessarily do a hard part down the middle, you can use your fingers just to separat your hair down the middle so you have two sections. You take your left section of hair (kind of like gathering it for a ponytail) and wrap it toward the right side of your head and pin it there. Then you gather the right section of hair (that is still hanging down) and wrap it toward the left side of your head and pin it. Since you started with the left section it should be higher on the back of your head and the right section should be below it. It's like you've crisscrossed your hair in the back.
I'm sorry if that confuses you more.

Thanks! Kinda makes sense I'm on the phone with my friend and she's trying to explain too so I think I get it. I'll have to check out KhandiB for a visual.

 

[KAT25]

Any suggestions for a protective style for me?? This is how my hair looks and I have had very very bad experiences with weaves (sew-in, braids) I think my hair is just to thin and can't take the stress

 

[SmartyPants]

Hi Mom23,

I love your hair. Very full and healthy. Green rollers, here I come!

If the green rollers aren't small enough, try the yellow rollers. But, at ear length, the green ones should be small enough.

My hair isn't even ear length yet so I am still using the yellow ones (actually all my rollers are black but the ones I am using now are the same size as the yellow ones).

 

[AvaSpeaks]

Hi all! Newbie

Anyway, I have pretty much been Neck length all my life. So has there or is there anybody on this board or thread that has been Neck length and has gotten their hair past that length? Like maybe longer neck length or collarbone?

Just wondering. Because I can't believe that my terminal length is just the neck. Including the fact that my mother, grandmother, and her mother all had long hair. So it got to be something else right?

I have come to the conclusion that my hair breaks off way faster than my hair grows. Hence it staying the same length. Any insight?

 

[sikora]

Hi all! Newbie

Anyway, I have pretty much been Neck length all my life. So has there or is than anybody on this board or thread that has been Neck length and has gotten their hair past that length? Like maybe longer neck length or collarbone?

Just wondering. Because I can't believe that my terminal length is just the neck. Including the fact that my mother, grandmother, and her mother all had long hair. So it got to be something else right?

I have come to the conclusion that my hair breaks off way faster than my hair grows. Hence it staying the same length. Any insight?

I think that may be it. Can you share what you have been doing lately to your hair?

 

[AvaSpeaks]

Nothing consistant. Everything I pretty much start, I drop off with. Whether it's vitamins or washes or conditioning or whatever, I fall off of it. I guess I need a lot more patience to get me thru the first couple of months.

 

[Evolving78]

Hi all! Newbie

Anyway, I have pretty much been Neck length all my life. So has there or is there anybody on this board or thread that has been Neck length and has gotten their hair past that length? Like maybe longer neck length or collarbone?

Just wondering. Because I can't believe that my terminal length is just the neck. Including the fact that my mother, grandmother, and her mother all had long hair. So it got to be something else right?

I have come to the conclusion that my hair breaks off way faster than my hair grows. Hence it staying the same length. Any insight?

I did and I grew my hair out to APL. People didn't believe that my hair could grow. Well when I decided to relax every 8 weeks, get wraps, rollersets, staying away from heat, changing products, getting my ends clipped, and staying away from harsh color, my hair just turned around for me. I was very careful with my hair and stayed away from hard hairstyles. I would always keep my hair wrapped up in a satin scarf when I was at home. I was going to the salon a lot too. Usually once a week or sometimes 2x a week. I was very careful about what someone was doing to my hair and I didn't allow them to do too much anyway. I didn't perm my hair myself anymore either. Sorry so long. I just know how you feel. Now I'm starting all over again this time as a natural. I want my fro to get really big! Good luck Girl!

 

[Evolving78]

My hair is long enough to put into a decent sized ponytail. Does anyone think it will break off a lot if I keep doing this? I can't bun to save my life and it's too hot to have my hair down.

Thanks in advance, short hair ladies.

I would use plastic hair clips until my hair got longer. This way it wouldn't be too much tension.

 

[AvaSpeaks]

See here is my problem.

In May of 2006, after years of being natural, and I cut all of my hair off again, to start over. And by May of 2007, I had my full 6 inches of hair (1/2 inch per month).

Problem is, I think I'm hovering around 7-8 inches, but I have never gotten to 10 or more inches. Next year, it should be 12, but it won't. It always stays around the bottom of my neck. Overall.

But I have noticed that the sides and back is 6 inches, that has never happened before in my life. The front is around my lips. So I know my hair growing, but I want to know what am I doing wrong where it's not growing past this usually length?

 

[momi]

Great thread!! It is always great to hear from other ladies that have short hair similar to mine. I still have a lot to learn so I would love for everyone to continue to share.

It is true that you have to be creative and have patience when it comes to growing out short hair. I switch my protective styles between rollersetting, wrapping, or wearing a bun. Doing these styles help me avoid heat and it has truly helped my hair. These styles help me stretch my relaxers too. Right now I am at week 11 and I will be getting my relaxer on Friday.

This site has given me so much support and encouragment. It has truly helped me with my healthy hair care journey.

Your fotki has truly encouraged me along my journey. I recently cut my hair and need some inspiration!

 

[pazyamor]

Man, it is sooo good to see a shorthaircareforum...I am trying to get past nape length; I have it colored and relaxed right now, but I'm growing the color out. My problem is, all this time I thought putting oil in it was enough to moisturize...but it's not:covereyes! So now not only do I need a good protein treatment (which I've never done...why? I don't know), I need a darn moisturizer!! Can anybody recommend a light-weight moisturizer that's not going to weigh my crazy hair down? Also, a protein treatment that has really worked for you!


And my fellow short-hair sisters! WE WILL MAKE ITI know we will be putting ourselves to the BSL challenge next year. I really just want healthy, strong hair that's bouncy and soft.

 

[NaturaLei]

Talk about short hair....I'm growing out my baldy. Its been 3 months and I have about 1.5 inches of hair. (See avatar). So far, its healthy--I just hope it stays that way. I'm aiming for 3 inches by the new year. I figure a healthy 3 inches would be a great way to bring in '08.

 

[Imani]

How long do you think til all these back layers reach shoulder length?? Trying to set some realistic goals.

http://public.fotki.com/imani/randomly-felt-like-/picture012.html

 

[dillard]

Talk about short hair....I'm growing out my baldy. Its been 3 months and I have about 1.5 inches of hair. (See avatar). So far, its healthy--I just hope it stays that way. I'm aiming for 3 inches by the new year. I figure a healthy 3 inches would be a great way to bring in '08.

wow! your hair is beautifully THICK! You look stunning with a twa. did u cut in order to start a natural journey? well, the shcf is a great place for advice for us SL or above ladies

 

[NaturaLei]

wow! your hair is beautifully THICK! You look stunning with a twa. did u cut in order to start a natural journey? well, the shcf is a great place for advice for us SL or above ladies

Thank you!

This is actually my 2nd big chop. I first went natural last year but I did a 2nd big chop 3 months ago because I was having trouble with my crown area. I got frustrated, and next thing I knew...I was in the bathroom shaving my head. The thickness was killing me, and still is. I never had so much trouble with relaxed hair. But, I'm going to try and stay natural as long as possible.

By the way, I checked out your album, and your hair looks great both permed and natural.

 

[Sula]

Talk about short hair....I'm growing out my baldy. Its been 3 months and I have about 1.5 inches of hair. (See avatar). So far, its healthy--I just hope it stays that way. I'm aiming for 3 inches by the new year. I figure a healthy 3 inches would be a great way to bring in '08.

Oh My!! I'm so happy to see your hair... I'm also growing out my TWA and I'm about an inch or so (I'll post pics when I get home)... I am really enjoying this thread. My hair is healthy right now(although a bit dull looking ), and I will be very conservative in hoping for 2 inches by the new year...

HGH to you!

 

[thicknjuicy]

I need some serious advice! I spent 1 year growing out my relaxed chin-length hair. In May 2007, I did the BC. I had been sporting weaves, braids and wigs the whole year to get a little length on my now 3 inch long natural hair. Ok, so last week i decided to wear my hair natural...semi-natural. I purchased Just for Me(not for me) hair Softener, thinkin it was gentle enuff for kids, it's gotta be great for me! Now i have crunchy, dry, dreadlock rasta hair! i have been deep conditioning it every two days. Nexxus Humectress, Motions CPR, olive oil, baby oil, aphogee you name it I'm using it. Any one with any suggestions...Whatta waste of a full year. i just wanted it to be a little more manageable! I could slap myself!!

 

[donewit-it]

Just wanted to subscribe to this thread since I am up and running now with the pictures. I am still considered short hair , right?

My goal is just to grow my hair as long as it can go and be healthy. I've been maintaining it with wash n go's, coming in and out of self-done braids for 3weeks at a time. (not that great so they only last about that time frame) and wearing alot of twist-outs. I'm going to join the valentine's day challenge this weekend so I guess I will experience a tremendous amount of growth. I'll be picturing progress pictures in my new fotki over a period of time.

Bubblinbrownsugga(sp) is definitely my hair inspiration. Her hair is absolutely beautiful and I think we share a similar hair texture. I know I can do it too.

This is the longest that I've kept my hair natural after going back and forth between relaxers and such. Thanks the ladies of this forum, I think I'm gonna stay this way.

Good luck everyone and HHG

 

[Coffee]

I'm a short and sassy and really happy with the health and length of my hair now. I went from a "very short afro in April of this year to what you see on my picture which was taken in August of this year. I've learned so much reading this forum. I think what has helped me the most was DC after every wash and using Dr. Miracle's Grow Oil. I don't have a "goal" length, just want it thick and healthy.

 

[silverlotus]

bumping for my lil sis....

 

[*Luscious*Locked*Doc]

I just chopped my hair off to the V-beckam bob mainly because it was breaking and damaged and shedding like crazy. I'm ready to grow my hair out healthy and long. What do you think would be a good start? My hair is relaxed and type 4B texture. I'm trying to give up flat ironing my hair but with such a short style what else can I do? I air-dried it last night after washinand conditioning with CON and putting in NTM Silktouch Leave In, and I followed with Elasta QP Mango butter tied with a scarf and left overnight. It was softer than it's ever been but it was a mess.

 

[baby42]

I HAVE SHORT HAIR ITS GROWING BUT NOTHING LIKE SOME OF THE LADYS HERE WHEN I TELL SOMEONE I JOINE LHCF THEY LOOK AT ME LIKE I AM SICK THEN I HAVE TO TELL THEM THAT THIS FORUM IS FOR ALL KINDS OF HAIR LENGHT TO LEARN TO TAKE CARE OF MY HAIR AND HOW TOO KEEP IT WHEN IT GROWING WHATTO USE AND NOT USE I AM SURE THAT WHY IT IS GROWING AND TO NO I AM NOT ALONE THANKS FOR THE POST AND WHATS SO GOOD ABOUT HERE IS THAT NO BODY TREATS YOU FUNNY CAUSE YOU DONT HAVE LONG HAIR WHEN YOU ASK FOR HELP,I AM MOISTURIZING 2X A DAY DC ONCE A WEEK BAGGIE USEING PROTEIN TREATMENT WHEN NEED TAKEING VIT USEING A GROWTH AID SO FAR SO GOOD.THIS IS WHAT I AM DOINGI TRY NOT TO WORRY CAUSE THAT DONT HELP AND I PICK OUT TIPS FROM HERE YOU ARE NOT ALONE BUT DONT GIVE UP

 

[unique4lyfe33]

im a newbie here and i see people writing that there hair is 4a, 3b ect wat does that mean? i know i probably sound stupid but im confusederplexed

 

[Cayenne0622]

im a newbie here and i see people writing that there hair is 4a, 3b ect wat does that mean? i know i probably sound stupid but im confusederplexed

They are describing their hair texture. People with 4a, 4b....4z hair have probably the coursest texture hair. Kinky/Coily. People with 3's and higher with have coils, curls, and waves. I know they have it mapped out somewhere...I just can't remember where. lol

 

[LivingDoll]

Re: Shorthaircareforum discussion board

I would like to revive this thread for us short haired sistahs...I know its the long hair care forum but a lot of us ladies are on a journey from short to long maybe a better support system would make the transition easier.