Growingitlong
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Sorry about the set back. It can be quite frustrating. But you have the support of the gang here to keep you going.
I can attest to that. I am no longer letting any hair stylists near my hair in a hurry. I work really hard to get some length then go for a relaxer and then they cut all my progress. And I always find that the stylists handle my hair a bit too rough and rake from the roots down to the ends. I can't stand that.
Right now my sister is my stylist
. She does a good job of relaxing my roots 'without overlapping' using some of the rules i have picked up on this board. She listens to me and does what I ask. She will trim off no more than I ask her to. But I am not doing any trimming or trying not to until the end of the year which is when I plan to get my next relaxer.
I can attest to that. I am no longer letting any hair stylists near my hair in a hurry. I work really hard to get some length then go for a relaxer and then they cut all my progress. And I always find that the stylists handle my hair a bit too rough and rake from the roots down to the ends. I can't stand that.
Right now my sister is my stylist
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. I relaxed my hair on June 12 and gained about 3" of new growth after 21 weeks. I trimmed 0.5". I took pics and everything, but don't really wanna show anyone 'cos my relaxer don't look too hot. My hair looks frizzy for some reason.

....MY HAIR GREW SO MUCH THAT I STOPPED CHECKING ON IT, SO OFTEN. I STILL TRY TO WASH 2-3 TIMES A WEEK. I STARTED USING MTG, BUT LEFT IT ALONE FOR AWHILE, IT SMELLS. I STRETCH MY PERM TO EVERY 3 MONTHS. THIS TIME I AM AIMING FOR 4 MAYBE 5 MONTHS. MY HAIR LINE IS BALDING, BUT AM WORKING HARD ON BRINGING IT BACK TO LIFE. MOST OF MY UPDATES AND HAIRSTYLES ARE IN MY PHOTO ALBUM. I WEAR MOSTLY PROTECTIVE STYLES ABOUT 80% OF THE TIME THIS YEAR. 

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To keep my mind off the rate at which my hair is growing I planned to get cornrows but I have too many events on my platter this month which call for a more “elegant” hairstyle. In place of cornrows I’ve been experimenting more with different styles. So far I’ve tried a braidout, and plan to experiment with twistouts and maybe even a roller set. As long as the style involves no heat I’m all for it.
I remember when I increased my washing last year around September/October my hair grew 2 inches in like a month and a half so I'm starting early on washes and cutting out the poo. 