tkj25 said:ella your nape hair looks 3c to me. and yes 4a hair grows out curly, but they're naturally frizzy-separated-nappy-type-curly. i'm gonna post some pics later to show a curl definition test i did on my hair. it's soft, hydrated, 4a, nappy, frizzy hair. but i've also found that if i apply product to wet 1 inch sections of hair, smooth through, and let air dry w/o touching it, my 4a hair dries in tiny curlyclumps. this works for any part of my hair. it's mostly 4a with a band of 3c at the nape.
Please do.
I'am even more confused now then at the beginning of the thread.
@B
yes you're right I had a fro but I knew nothing about my hair,my mom always combed my fro into those 70ies fro's,I looked cute with it I may add

i was always raised to believe i had the roughest of the rough nappy hair. (thankfully i've educated myself out of that backwards thinking) yes, my nappy hair doesn't naturally show curl definition. but if i take a wet 1 inch square section of hair and apply/smooth a slippy leave in & some flax seed gel, ta da i have curl definition -- curls poppin everywhere
)has changed to a more relaxed, almost straight pattern
There have been some discussions about it on LHCF and the Long Hair Community, too. Some of my friends, members of my family and even I have experienced it, too. This is yet, another neat thing about hair. I know that I sound like a hair nerd right about now. 