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***Que*** said:
Now come on Iris, were you really hurt? I mean we had a lot of fun and it's not like it went on for days or months. She was exposed early on from the recipe thread. Now I admit it was shady but um yeah, I'm over it. Whether her apology is real or not, you have been vindicated and it is time to go on. Just pray for her, wish her the best, and avoid her threads. Typing all that is not going to change anyone's mind. You know, she knows, and most of us know but most importantly, God knows so that's all that matters. Q
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I am very hurt. My belly hurts from laughing so hard. I've been laughing since 8:00am

I really don't think the OP will do it again.
 
im also wondering who the pictures are of. when i first looked at them i thought some of the pics didnt look like the same person.
 
SugarBaby said:
I followed the drama yesterday and Unfortunately I have come to the conclusion the OP is not the only one needing help.

There is need for help on so many levels with so many that just won't let this go....:nono:

.....Going back to lurk mode.
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Truer words were never spoken. :sad:
 
***Que*** said:
Now come on Iris, were you really hurt? I mean we had a lot of fun and it's not like it went on for days or months. She was exposed early on from the recipe thread. Now I admit it was shady but um yeah, I'm over it. Whether her apology is real or not, you have been vindicated and it is time to go on. Just pray for her, wish her the best, and avoid her threads. Typing all that is not going to change anyone's mind. You know, she knows, and most of us know but most importantly, God knows so that's all that matters. Q
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Hi Q, I understand how Iris feels. Everyone came down hard on us for calling this chick out. We may have gone a lil over the top, but that still doesn't rectify the fact that she did what she did. You know it's a lot of what if's involved. What if someone had used her recipe, what if they had lost their hair or had some major damage etc. Iris did get the bulk of criticisim thrown at her only because she was persistent that something was seriously wrong, while some others hadn't even noticed. She cared enough and stood by her better judgement till the end, I commend her for sticking up for everyone. I say let her vent. It's obviously that she was truly hurt behind all of this. We owe her that much!
 
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Keen said:
I think the issue was 1/2 cup of 100% sulfur. People in that thread were talking about teaspoons.
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From Determined_to_Grow: "Measurements are based on the size of the bottle you use to mix. I use a 4 oz bottle so I fill it with about 1.5 of sulphur and the rest in oil. I am going to bump Den1 thread on her mix, also look in the hair recipes section and you can find more information."

Do you know if the 1.5 was oz or tsp? Just wondering
 
Ok now y'all, the child apologized. She can't be anymore sorry than she already is. She's also apologized directly to you ladies. Forgive her and let's move on from the hurt.
 
Finally Free said:
Hi Q, I understand how Iris feels. Everyone came down hard on us for calling this chick out. We may have gone a lil over the top, but that still doesn't rectify the fact that she did what she did. You know it's a lot of what if's involved. What if someone had used her recipe, what if they had lost their hair or had some major damage etc. Iris did get the bulk of criticisim thrown at her only because she was persistent that something was seriously wrong, while some others hadn't even noticed. She cared enough and stood by her better judgement till the end, I commend her for sticking up for everyone. I say let her vent. We owe her that much!
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If if was a 5th we'd all be drunk. I mean seriously I understand all of that but sometimes you just have to let stuff go. We are all going to be accused or chastised at one point or another but dwelling on it doesn't help. I commend her for sticking up but also you gotta know when to fold them and when to hold them. The girl apologized either believe her and move on or don't and move on. But going on and on and on and on does what? No one got hurt and I am sure the girl has a lot of egg on her face.

But if as Christians are to be the light of this world, we should forgive and move on like Jesus would. I am not excusing her, I am talking about us. If you choose to continue to be mad and hurt then that is your choice. I choose forgive and let it go. Q
 
SugarBaby said:
I followed the drama yesterday and Unfortunately I have come to the conclusion the OP is not the only one needing help.

There is need for help on so many levels with so many that just won't let this go....:nono:



.....Going back to lurk mode.
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Tell me about it. :rolleyes:
 
Well I'm of the opinion that continuing to post on this thread is just giving her what she wants...attention. So this will be my first and only post.

I know you apologized and I'm sorry for what's wrong in your life. Believe me, I have been through terrible things and I understand what pain can do to you, but I get so tired of people using the internet for attention seeking.
 
Irresistible said:
ok lets be real here then

firstly I am saying this advice given to her is not healthy, this is not how she should be told to handle a situation iike this and secondly, yes I was hurt, there were accusations made at me, of me mocking her, being cruel to the 'deaf chick', God knows that was not my heart, a whole thread about how disapointed everyone was yada yada, was I hurt by the op directly NO, inderectly YES, can I get over it YES, is it thats serious NO, for me, but what she did was! it was whack and wayyy selfish, I am NOT exaggerating when I say I am sick , yes it was me that decided to take this on, is that her fault NO, but nevertheless what she did :nono: still whack and when me and others joked or had a few laughs just at the madness of it, oh the accusations flew at us, did that suck? yes! in that way it is connected to her.......

but the post above didnt come from pain it came from real life whack advice, i mean really would that really fly in any real life situation? however hurt or however i was affected like you said......God knows, I dont have to put that in any scales in front of anyone right?

nah I aint quick to jump and accept all this , that doesnt fully have to do with pain either, I also spoke in perceptions and thoughts and reality IS I think it was all so whacked out, I cant percieve it right now, but is it fair to judge my motives, when I am saying clear as day what it is for me?

I like her have pain in my life and I could play the fiddle on the mental levels this played into that situation , all the accustions-oh so right on time lining right up with other shyt in my life-does that mean she had the greatest affect? NO , But yeah it was whack and she should not do this to people , so nah I aint ready to make nice, and who is to judge that , really? But telling her that advice for her life-when her perceptions are already so off centered or self centered is not helpful

and that part does tie into my real life , and that does affect me, exactly what I said, the I apologize so you accept in my way in my timing is going on right now in my life! and it sucks! am I mixing signals like her and crossing my pain over to this.......maybe some......but nah I think its just in poor taste to tell someone this for their lives about forgiveness period. Maybe it can apply here and thats fine, but should someone like this be told to apply this to their lives period? is it successful? nope

I suppse it is if what the poster was saying was the truth, but to tell this person that 'this is what she is and this is what her frienships are and this is what she should do' across the board , I think is very poor advice , possibly even more 'robbery' for someone in her situation, yes she deserves to be let off the hook. But to say others only have ill motives if they are not accepting in her way in her timing is incorrect and since she doesnt seem to have many teaching her, how to deal with people, telling her what she did to people and how her actions affected others does not matter past the apology might be a grave mistake
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Okay so are you done now? I mean what more do you want? Don't answer because I don't need to read anymore books tonight. If you feel that way then do you. Have a good night. You can have the last word because I know you would go back and forth with me all night. Q

ETA: this is why I don't come to the hair board. :nono: Yall have a good night. Peace!!! Q
 
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***Que*** said:
If if was a 5th we'd all be drunk. I mean seriously I understand all of that but sometimes you just have to let stuff go. We are all going to be accused or chastised at one point or another but dwelling on it doesn't help. I commend her for sticking up but also you gotta know when to fold them and when to hold them. The girl apologized either believe her and move on or don't and move on. But going on and on and on and on does what? No one got hurt and I am sure the girl has a lot of egg on her face.

But if as Christians are to be the light of this world, we should forgive and move on like Jesus would. I am not excusing her, I am talking about us. If you choose to continue to be mad and hurt then that is your choice. I choose forgive and let it go. Q
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I agree!:yep:
 
Irresistible said:
here we go........

its all good Bint I can do that too
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You know what though. I feel what you are saying, and your advice about apologies and victims is good general life advice when dealing with certain situations. Yes we are all carrying a particular burden, but be real.....dog piling a deaf girl who seeks internet attention.............and makes multiple handles to prove a sulfur recipe for attention....come on now

you dont even have to do anything
that kind of crazy speaks for itself
its really a matter of choosing your battles, this is one you can really let go becauase to even start to analyze this and make an issue of it will make you look CRAZIER than the OP :look::nono:
 
Although I don't know what thread ur referring to, I do know confessing that took great courage....God Bless:)
 
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